Thursday, October 31, 2013

Halloween

Halloween happened this year, in contrast to the cancellations of the past two years due to Hurricane Sandy and a freak snowstorm.

Wendy enjoyed some celebration time at school with a "trunk or treat" setup in the parking lot where the teachers filled their trunks with candy and treats and the children went around collecting.




Then after school we went out for pizza in town with friends and some trick-or treating there before heading back to the neighborhood for more candy collection.




Sunday, October 27, 2013

Pastor Valencia's Installation Celebration

When we joined our church, it was being pastored by an interim pastor, who then left and a second interim took her place. The wheels of the presbytery spin exceeding slow, and it was a long wait for all of us to go through the selection process for a new and permanent pastor. We were so happy that the Rev. Valencia Norman was chosen and also that she chose to come lead us. She and I have a great mutual friend, who preached at the installation service and whose sermon left both me and Chris in tears. She spoke of the experience for our congregation of being in the wilderness yet sensing God's presence and support throughout the time there. It seemed to us like such a metaphor as well for our adoption journey and we felt so comforted and strengthened by her words.

Below, our new pastor Valencia with our mutual friend Anne:


And, the children enjoyed food and fellowship at the celebration meal after!




Saturday, October 26, 2013

Doubles and Donuts

All the time we see evidence of Fer and Wendy's increased fluency in English and their ability to make connections. Last weekend in 24 hours we had two striking examples. In the first, Wendy was asking me as we were driving somewhere about "the word for that person, who looks like you, but lives far from you, and you don't know who they are, but they look exactly like you. What is that person called?" At first I could hardly think what word she meant, but then tentatively guessed, "Doppelganger?" And her response: "Yes! A girl on the gymnastics team saw her dad's doppelganger at the Maplewood Diner!" I think I started using that word in college when I was writing my senior thesis! And in the second example, we were (again) driving somewhere (suburban life!), and talking about how last year the girls' babysitter used to take them in the morning for Dunkin Donuts as a stop along the way to school on the mornings that she walked them to school, "until," Fer said humorously/bitterly, "Mami passed the Boston Creme Exclusion Act!" Clearly her study of immigration, particularly Chinese immigration to the West and the anti-Chinese laws that were passed in response including the Chinese Exclusion act, was uppermost in her mind.

Friday, October 18, 2013

Papi's Birthday

We celebrated Chris's birthday with cards and cupcakes!